Neither Here Nor There

I made 'friends' with a man through one of the dating websites.  We even 'friended' each other on Face Book and even 'Skyped' one another this past Saturday.  We shared a 48 minute telephone call the night before.  He seemed like a nice guy too and looked pretty good as well.  So now it's like he's jumped off the face of the earth.  No movement on Face Book, no e-mails.  What gives?

What is it with these guys?  Do they need a firecracker under their butts to wake them up?  It's like they give you a tease, and then nothing.  I just don't understand it.

Maybe it's me.  In this world of IM's, e-mails, Skype, chat rooms and the old-fashioned telephone, there is no reason for someone not to keep in touch with someone......unless one find the other totally repulsive or one works 24 hours a day! 

I just thought I'd put that out there....makes one think doesn't it?

No Fireworks, No Sparks, No Nothing

I went on a dinner date with a new guy last night.  He wrote intelligent e-mails and his voice sounded good on the phone.  However.......it was one big DUD!

There was absolutely no chemistry whatsoever.  Another one of these guys talking about himself also.  He made no mention of how I looked (is that too vain of me) and hardly smiled.  We had two glasses of red wine and he swished the glass about 9 times and smelled it about 6!  Maybe he was nervous....okay, I'll give him that much.

However, I do want to thank him for the dinner.  But what do I say in the e-mail?  I met someone (sure overnight, I met someone); I really am gay; I'm moving to Sydney, Australia.......Well, I guess the words will come pouring out of me when I finally sit down to write it.  Any ideas??

Sometimes I think all of this is one big pain in the _ _t t!!!!