Tuesday, April 12, 2011

The "X" Factor

[I have been away in the Big Apple for 10 days, that is why there has been a lapse in communication.]

Okay....so why is it that 'good girls' go for 'bad' men?  I have done the 'unspeakable' and e-mailed my "X".  I mean after all, he DUMPED me!  According to him, he went back to HIS 'X'.  When we left each other, way back in January, we said we would be friends.  So yesterday I asked him to meet for a Sushi lunch or dinner.  He responded and I think we're meeting sometime next week, but just as friends.  Hmmmm......a line from "When Harry Met Sally" comes to mind. Harry:  ..... men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.  Sally:  .....That's not true, I have a number of men friends and there's is no sex involved.


So who's right?  Interesting isn't it?  I would love to agree with Sally, but deep down I think men always have in the back of their mind the sex issue.  Isn't it true that men DON'T think with their brains?



All of my 'followers' have reason to yell at me, but for some reason I can't get this guy out of my mind.  Maybe because he was my 'first' after my loving marriage with my husband. 

Where do we go now?  I'll keep you posted, literally!

 

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